There is no supported way to bypass an iPhone passcode while preserving protected data. If the phone is yours, use Apple's official recovery process: erase the device through the lock-screen recovery option, Finder or Apple Devices on a trusted computer, or Find My, then restore a backup. You will still need the Apple Account associated with Activation Lock.
Before erasing anything, check whether an iCloud or computer backup exists. If you cannot sign in to the Apple Account, start account recovery through Apple's official recovery page or contact Apple Support with proof of purchase. Do not pay a site that promises a universal unlock; it may take the device, payment details, or account credentials without restoring access.
After recovery, set a new passcode that is not reused elsewhere, enable two-factor authentication, review trusted devices, and make a fresh encrypted backup. If this is a child's family-owned phone, configure Screen Time through Family Sharing so future control changes can be managed from the parent's account.
Monitoring products do not replace passcode or Activation Lock recovery. Only consider one after the device has been lawfully restored and the family has agreed on the supervision rules.